Hi ❣Its so nice to see you ,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 💛
I think most of us are a bit “busy” with our “look” in one or another way 😊. I m ,- and I know most of the people around me are. You are too 😉….a bit….😉. And I dont think its anything wrong with that ,- thats the way it is, thats the way its going to be, and thats the way it has been for “ages” and “ages” …..and I really mean for “ages” 😊. But ,- and yes it is a tiny “but” in “here” as well….. 😉….and I m going to “touch” the “but” a bit now and then 😊…..not to much today,- I have just started to “touch” this “area” today 😉.
Its so many differents ways to be “busy” with “the look”. Its all from “plastic fantastic” to hairstyle, clothes, special brands, to make- up and how to do the make-up, fashion, style, work-out, diffenert types of lifestyles, health, body-care, tatoos, “fill up an fill down” ect ect. The “subject” its big 😊. Something that means, for me, that I have a bit to write about in this “area”……if I want,- and I do 😅 😊. So, yes,- it will probably be some different posts about “the look” in different areas 😊.
Because I m a bit vain too,- to be honest 😅. I do “care about” how I “look”- read this one more time,- please 😉. I care about how I look,- its not sure I care about how you think Im “looking” ,- and its not sure I care to much about how you are “looking” either,- I m vain more or less just for my self,- so a lots of this “good looking” its for me and how it makes me feel. Its about how I feel,- Im feel “pretty”, “good looking”, and feel comfortable with my self. But I don’t start “crying” if someone tells me I do look good 😉. Of course it makes me a bit happy 😋. Im not “better” than “anyone” else in that “area” 😊.
And of course I also do “dress up” “for others” or in different “settings” now and then too 😊. So they or them can or will get a tiny positive impression about me,- and so I feel a bit comfortable with myself too 😊. Also when it comes to nice photos on Facebook, Instagram or in my blog.
But.- I have “squeezed” a couple of “limits ” when it comes to show photos of myself “online” during the last 4- 5 months 😂. I have really “exposed” myself with “putting” photos of myself with no mascara- and I really do love to use my mascara 👀. Or photos where I m tired….or doing work-out…..or even in my bikini.
Photos I actually dont feel to comfortable to put “out there” “online” for “all and everyone” to see, at all 😅. But,- thats a part of “the look”…..and life as well,- we do not look to “smashing” all the time, in all the situations in life 😊. And to be honest,- for example,- the first “online-photos” of myself without my mascara I didnt feel comfortable at all to “put” “out there” online, or the first bikini- photos either 😅…..but okay,- thats the way it is 😊.
I do like best to put out photos of myself where I feel comfortable and “good looking” 😊…..and some days I actually get a bit tired of to find or take a “good looking” photo of myself or any photos at all,- and do take or find a total different photo insted 😊.
I do dress up when I go to work or meet my friends, or are going on a date. I do,- and I do it mostly for my self as well as a bit for the people around me 😊…..special on a date 😅. I want my date to think Im “smashing” 😍. Most of us are like that 😊.
But still,- most of the “things” I do when it comes to my “look” I do for my self,- and I think that’s a bit importen – for “all and everyone” of us. To do it for your self, feel well and comfortable with your self- and not “please” other people around you 😊. Look good more and less just for you 😊.
And here comes a tiny “but“…..
My impression is that some (or many- Im not sure) do take care of their “look” just to “please” others and not them self. And thats a bit sad I think 😔.
And maybe its in this “area” some “influences” ( yepp,- the new “hipp” word for a blogger) have a bit to think about when they do write their posts? Are they writing a kind of “recommendations” for their readres to be like them ? Or is it about “good suggestions” and “advice ” ? And are the “suggestions and advice” actually good for their readers? 🤔 I m not quite sure about that and this one.
One thing is for sure,- its a very “touchy” “area” this “how do I look”- area.
Im not to worried about “touching” this area,- and one of the reasons is because of my age. Im 46,- I have done “a couple things” in my life,- also when it comes to “my look”. I have a bit knowledge as well, and a bit life-experience too 😉. I also know I need to “walk” a bit careful when I m “touching” “the look” – theme , that means ,-in this case, when Im writing about it 😊.
This morning I did take a shower, and I did fixed my hair, I did put on a deo and a tiny touch of perfume. And my mascara, of course, and I did brush my teeth too. And actually I did put on some clothes , I did felt comfortable with as well 😅…..I didnt want to “walk around” with out any clothes at my work 😅.
I did this things mostly for myself and for feeling comfortable 😊. Normally I dont go very fare away without my mascara and also fixing my hair a bit 😊. (and brushing my teeth). Then I feel a bit “good looking” for the day 😊. And of course,- I have some clothes on too 😅.
Do you have any thing you do that make you feel comfortable and “good looking”? For me its my mascara and my hair 😊…..and then “the rest”.
I hope you do your “good looking- stuff” for your “self-feeling” and for mostly to be comfortable with your self 💛…..and not to “please ” others to much. Of course,- its a “dress-code” for many to take care about, at for example in the work-situation. Im more thinking “in general”,- today in very super general, when I m writing about “the good look for just your self” 😊.
It will come more posts about “this”,- ” “the looking” in my blog 😊. Little by little, step by step,-and about different subjects,- and I m going to try to “walk” as careful as I can in this “area”. For me its mostly to put the focus on “do it for your self “…..but its not a “easy” theme,- thats for sure- its “sensible” and “touchy” 😊.
I wish you a great day or evening where ever in the world you are 💛 and thank you so much for reading my blogg and dropping by today too 💛.
And try to do “your good look” mostly for your self- feel pretty and good looking,- just for you 😍 😊.
Some works and jobs has a “dress-code”,- even mine, even the costumers dont see me at all 😊. But,- as long as I can use my masacara and fix my hair its a very good “start” on the “good looking”- feeling for me 😊.