Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡
We all people have different personalities and are different personalities,- and it doesn’t mean that one is more correct or better then an other one. It just means different and differences 😊. And that is actually a very good thing, that we all are not similar 😊. I think it could be very boring if we all was similar 🥴.
I know I’m introvert, but I’m also a bit extrovert, but my personality is probably more introvert,- and it’s actually nothing wrong with that even some think so. For me it is a very good and positive thing,- it’s just a bit annoying when other people want to tell me how I am. Like for example that I’m afraid of people, questions about depression, wants to drag me out for parties or walks when I don’t want to, because they think it’s good for me, and so on. I think I know what’s best for me myself 😉.
I like my own company, and I boosting my energy when I use my time in my own company. And then I have also more energy to other people around me, and they actually give me even more energy when I spend time with them then. But not before I have boosted my energy with my own company first 😊.
For me to be introverted means I need time alone. Be alone, and have no people around me for a while. I really need my time alone without any one around me. It doesn’t mean I’m lonely or feel lonesome, or have any kind of depression. For me it is the best way to actually get new energy. And to be honest, I really enjoying my own company,- did I mention that 😉. For how long time I need to be alone, it depends on the different settings and situations I have been in.
In general I’m not bored, I have different things and stuffs to do. Like write, paint, work, knit or watch a movie or series, or read a book. I’m a creative soul, so in general I normally find something to do 😊. I even like to exercise alone 🤸♀️.
For me, being introverted means that I get energy from my inner life, through thoughts, reflections and various decisions, as well as doing creative things. I do not dig into negative thoughts, but try to make plans, find solutions. I think best in my own company, and I find the best solutions in my own company. It also give me the possibility to pay attention to other people’s feelings around when I have used some time just for me. And some I do care about, others I try to ignore. It depends on the energy the person is sending out.
For me, it feels and is experienced as disturbing with many people around me, – partly because there are so many different energies these people are sending out, and it is experienced as noise for me. I also know that I’m sensitive to other people’s energies. It’s not all the energies people “sending out” that are good energies.
I have no problem to go to big parties at all, but Im not the first one that’s coming and not the last one that walks home. But that does not mean I am not present at larger gatherings, or having a good time while I am there. It just means I do not spend much time at such gatherings and events.
If I could choose between a big party and a glass of wine together with two or three close friends, I have choose the glass of wine with my friends, and deeper conversations. Of course, I can talk to several people at the same time, and I also mostly like people, just not in large numbers, or for a long time.
I also do not like to be disturbed when I am immersed in work, plans, writing texts or painting, or thinking about things that are important for me to think about.
But I do like people, and I like to spend time with people too, help them, be there for them as best as I can. I’m not worried for speaking to other people, not either people I don’t know. I’m actually also a social person too 😊. It just this necessary time I need 😅.
Since February this year, I have more or less been surrounded by people. My children and friends of them in my home. And my home is my “free zone and comfort zone”. I have had little time alone, and I need some alone time. Special after work, but also after having had the house “full of people” 😊. All and everyone are incredibly nice people,- but stil I need “my time” 😊. A time that has been very difficult to find this year. But okay,- that’s the way it is, and has been.
I remember around this time last year, when my daughter moved out for the first time,- I did write a post about “being in my cave for a while” 😊. And I feel it a bit like this now at days too. To be a cave woman for a tiny little while 🧘♀️. But I’m not going to spend so much time in my cave this time before I’m going to invite my friends for some food, drinks and pleasant conversations 🥰.
When my children was small children I could put them to bed, and then get this valuable alone time. When my children was growing up and became teenagers I couldn’t put them to bed and get “my valuable alone time”, so I did put myself to bed instead,- and did wake up early in the morning for catching up “my time” in that way. And it all function very well for me 😊,- and my children as well, because then I actually had more and less the energy for them that I needed 😊,- and all the other things and stuff during a day 😊.
I have knew this since I was teenager, that Im a introvert person, maybe even from my childhood, – but it is in adulthood I have understood the importance of being introverted, – and that it is not as bad as many think. At least not for me,- probably more for people around me that actually don’t understand how important this “me time” is for me, and for them when too when we spend time together 😊. Because I have so much more to offer my friends and the people around me if I get this valuable time alone 🧡.
Another thing that describes introverted people is responsible, creative and analytical evener, and sensitive to other people’s different energies. And that description also suits me well as the person and the woman I am 😊.
For me to be an introverted person means that I feel good in my own company, I am creative, I am neither lonely nor depressed. I probably feel more lonely and depressed, and even frustrated if I do not get the time I need for just me. And now when I’m an adult I don’t care to much either what people think about me and this necessary alone time I need to have. This is just the way I am, in general a very happy introvert woman 😊.
I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for using your time and dropping by my blog today 🧡.
See you soon 😊
I’m a very happy introvert woman,- and I’m enjoying my valuable time on my own 😊. It’s nothing wrong to enjoy your own company,- and I have actually more to give to people around me if and when I get this important and valuable time on my own 🧡.
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