Wrinkles, you said?😳😅

Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡

After the hair on our top, we have our beautiful faces 😊,- and as we gets older there is a tiny habit that some fine lines and wrinkles are “showing up”. To be honest I don’t think my wrinkles are to bad, but what can happen in some years? I don’t know,- but I admit I do my very best to have the wrinkles and fine lines I have a bit under “control” 😅.

They are not so wrinkled and whining yet. But I never know what the age can bring me 😊.

Wrinkles, you say? 😊 Im stretching them out as best as I can as you can see 😅

But I need to admit that when I wake up and a little while afterwards there can be a bit more extra wrinkles. My skin is like a little extra “curly”, – trolly, trolly- and yes I think I can scare a soul and two with my morning trolly wrinkle face 😅. At least until the wrinkles has taken their morning stretches and calm down bit. You know like we stretch our body when we wake up, it’s also like my face need a bit time for “stretching” here and there after a good night sleep to let the wrinkles fall in the correct places, the correct nice places where they look a bit better 😅. But my morning wrinkles need to be stretched a bit out, maybe a kind of face morning exercise before they look “good”🤸‍♀️. Is it like that for you too? That this morning wrinkles have a habit to show up very much in the morning, a kind of a bit “trolly, trolly”, and then they in a way “calm down” a bit during the day?

And also when I’m very, very tired, ( or angry 😳),- uff, then I feel it’s wrinkles “everywhere” in my face and even on my throat too 😳. Not very charming,- but okay,- it it what it is 😳. I can be charming in other “settings” instead 😅.

And yes, there are a few more smile wrinkles and lines when I’m smiling now at days than for some few years ago, – but I take that as a good sign, – it means that I have smiled a lot and have a lot to be happy about. And that’s true too 😊🧡. I feel I have very much in my life to be grateful and happy for, and smile for 😊🧡

My happy, morning face from one of my morning walks at the beach 😊. Smiley wrinkles,- of course 😊 I have a lots to be happy for, grateful for and smile for 😊

Like I mention earlier in my post I do a couple of things to “slow down” the wrinkle process” in my face. I use honey and almond scrub a couple of times during the week, and I also “squeeze” some aloe vera in my face every day. Both honey, almond and the aloe vera are “fresh”. Well,- not quite the honey- that one is from a box in the store, and the almond too. But the aleo vera I have a big plant I’m using the leaves from. And I also “eat”, or drink is more correctly, collagen from Norway 😊. My youngest sister and her husband have their own collagen company and they makes and sells collagen,- and it’s perfect for the skin and also the health in general 😊. Except from this I also try my best to get 7- 8 hours sleep, try to eat healthy, and is very moderate with alcohol and I always use suncream in my face when I’m in the sun. Factor 30 or 50, it depends a bit.

I’m not sure if this “things” I’m doing can be a factor that my wrinkles are not to bad. Well,- at least I don’t think my wrinkles are to bad,- it doesn’t matter so much what other thinks. But if I believe it helps it’s good enough for me 😊. So I’m still not there where I think or feel I need to “lift” something in my face, yet, or fill up a bit here and there. But I don’t know how I will feel about that in a couple of years. Maybe thing will be different, maybe not- maybe I will still like my happy wrinkles and grateful for the fact that I actually still have them, and even maybe a couple of more 😊. Or maybe I will feel more confident and comfortable with my self if I Iift and fill a bit “here and there”? I don’t know. At the moment I’m fine with the way my wrinkles in my face are, I feel confident and comfortable like it is 😊.

I know some women feel for “lifting” and “filling up” here and there in their face,- and I can understand their choices, even I don’t want to do something like that, at least not yet. I don’t know what I will feel in a couple of years. But it’s about feeling confident and comfortable with your self and your age, so if some face lifting helps in the age of 50 or more,- why not? It’s all about feeling confident and comfortable with your self 😊.

I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡 Thank you so much for using your time and dropping by my blog today 🧡

See you soon 😊

This are more and less what I’m using for my skin in my face, and also aloe vera cream or suncream,- it depends.

Of course I have a bit more fine lines and wrinkles now at days then for just some years ago, I’m getting older,- and that’s a part of getting older 😊. But I choose to believe they are happy smiley wrinkles 😊.

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Dating ? What’s that?🥂😉

Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡

I’m not sure if dating is something for me, or maybe it’s not the “correct” time in my life to date? Or maybe it is that I haven’t met the “correct” one to date? Someone I want to date and use, spend and share my time together with?

Or can it be I have met a couple of men that was not good for me? So I have a mental barrier when it comes to men and dating? Or I do “meet” and chat with to many a bit , sorry for my expression, stupid men, in my freelance online chat job? Or maybe it something else? Or maybe I have just become too old, critical and demanding? 😅

I think maybe it is a combination of all, because I’m not very stressed out about the dating and I don’t feel of any kind of miss when it comes to the dating either, or miss a man in my lifet. I’m perfectly fine with my “civil” situation, status and life at the moment. I don’t want to date. I don’t want to have a boyfriend, and a lots of different commitments and demand I need to try to do my best to follow.

But of course all “this” can change one day, and suddenly I’m both want to date and feel more ready for dating too. You never know 😊. But at the moment I’m not in a rush for any dating or get a boyfriend or be in a relationship,- I’m perfectly fine where I’m in my life 😊.

But obviously other, special men I meet, are a bit “busy” with my civil status= single life. I’m not sure why- but it seems to bother some manly souls that Im single by my own choice 😅. Some of them try really hard to convince me that I actually need a date, a man I my life. And as more they try to convince me, as less interest I get. And some are even telling my both how and what I both need and need to feel, and how and what will be the best for me to use my time on. Then my intressert gets not even on zero, but on a minus interest for men like that.

I did “hang out” a bit together with my “old” neighbour for a “short second” last Autumn, before my daughter moved back home. I told him I thought maybe she was going to move back home too, because I knew she was not in a healthy relationship.

I haven’t heard very much from him/ my old neighbour after that. After my daughter moved back home.

I did suggest that we could “date” or meet up for a coffee or something like that on a cafe. I also gave him a couple of dates we could meet. But I haven’t heard anything more from him. And I’m actually fine with that.

I don’t feel sad that I haven’t heard very much more from him. He is a nice and pleasant man, attractive man too, but I don’t feel any intim or sexual attractive to him anymore. To be honest I “lost” that kind of attraction already after our first intim and sexual meeting this Autumn. Because “something” was changed- and my experiences was- not to the better, that’s for sure.

But I did meet him a couple of times more. I did try my very best “to find” my intim and sexual attraction for him, the sexual attraction I had before- but it’s gone. And of course that can be a reason why I haven’t heard very much more from him. Maybe, or actually probably, he did “recognize” my “losing sexual attraction” for him.

To be honest,- he did recognize it. I know exactly what happened. And what I’m going to tell you now some will feel I’m given to much intim information, and some will be affected of it- but okay,- that’s the way it is. I’m going to tell you what or why I “lost” my intim and sexual attraction for him as nice and smoothy as I can.

But he had actually “stashed” up his penis with 5 piercings since last time we was sexually together 😳. And that was not very comfortable to get or have inside me. One of the piercings he could remove, and he actually needed to do that. But the 4 other ones was 4 small metal ball under his skin.

Inserted from the root in a row …. under the skin.  The first was a ring, which I mentioned, attached to the skin of the tip, that is, the foreskin. So that was easy to remove “under the intim act”, but the 4 metal balls needed to be removed during some kind of surgery.

It was not a very comfortable experience, to be honest. I did try my very best to enjoy it, but, unfortunately, this piercings was a big turn off for me. And I didn’t even like “the look” at his penis with this piercings,- for me it looks more like a kind of sneak or a sea worm or a dragon or something like that 🐍🐉.

And he actually did ask me if I liked it- and I had some challenges to find the correct words to not hurt him, because obviously he was a bit proud over this piercings.

But what to say? And do you say to or tell someone that “the sex with you are not the best sex I have had”? Isn’t that a bit rude? But I did struggle to find the correct words, and of course he did recognize that. Special because I didn’t find the correct words to say 😳😅.

What have you done? Or said in a situation like this?

Of course someone else, some other women, can really like and enjoy piercings like this,- but it was nothing for me- that’s for sure. And I know that him and me can’t just be friends and hang around together like friends- then it’s better this way. And it’s also something called “out of sight, out of mind”. So since we are not neighbours anymore, and don’t see each other on not daily, weekly or monthly basis, the thoughts of him will smoothly fly away with the wind. And probably also in the opposite direction too- his thoughts for me will disappear too 😊.

Well,- that was the closest in the “dating- area” I was last year,- and that’s fine 😊. Maybe there will be some changes in “the dating6 area” during this year? I have not a clue 😅😊.

I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡 Thank you so much for using your time and dropping by my blog today 🧡

See you soon 😊

I’m single and I’m perfectly fine with my “civil status ” 😊 (ps- I’m still not good in this “selfie thing”- I actually need to exercise a bit more on that one 😅

I’m not very much into this dating things. And it doesn’t bother me 😊. Maybe dating isn’t very much for me? Or I just haven’t met “the special one” I will and want to use and share my time together with? At the moment I’m perfectly fine in my situation and doesn’t stress very much about dating or men at all. Maybe it will change one day? Or maybe not? Or maybe I’m just become too old, critical and demanding? 😅

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A new tiny “mystery” to solve 😳😅

Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡

I have been working with my freelance work today, and my internet has been soooooo incredible slow 😳. Slow internet gives me more working hours then I actually had in mind. Instead of answering 30 messages in 45 minutes I manage maybe 10 messages in 45 minutes, if Im really lucky, because I wait and wait and wait 😳. And I get impatient, resigned, a little stressed and actually a little bit moody too 🙄.

My oldest son has been very engaged in my internet today and tried to help me out as best as he could from the mountains. He actually managed to speed it up a bit too. Half speed is a bit better then closely no speed 😊. But it still takes time, and we have also used a lots of time to just speed the internet up a bit today 🚤.

And then I needed a break inbetween my work, special because of my mood 😅. And on my way up to the roof terrace for taking a break I “jumped” into a tiny little “mystery” 🤔.

Tired and moody, and not to creative when it comes to photos or write a text today I chose to actually use video instead of writing to much. That’s actually something I feel a bit more comfortable to do after sending in a video application, I also have shared with “all and everyone” online 🎥😊.

Hmmm…..? What’s under this? The biggest question is actually how did this come here? 🤔
This is not an advertisement, therefore including a cross over the “object”.

So let me take you with me on a tiny little video “round” – so I actually can show you why this became a tiny little “mystery” 😊

Just me….on my way to take a break on my roof terrace 😊
Then the tiny “mystery” “shows up” 😳
….and my “conclusion” on the “mystery” 😊

I think someone has been sitting in one of the windows in one of the apartments in the apartment building close to my home with a cigarette,- and probably the cigarette packaging did fly away from the window and down in my “stairs room”. That sounds at least most logical in my mind. What do you think?

I have mention this before, and I’m mention it again,- we create our days, and if we take a tiny look we can create something “exciting” out of something not very big now and then too 😊. My children has actually teach me this,- special my oldest,- he could create a fairy tale from closely nothing when he was a child 😊.

My moody day became a bit more fun and exciting just because of this tiny package on my stairs 😅. I could probably create a bit more about or around this too, but I leave it to this today 😊. I have some other work I need to do as well ….and as you know with a half speeded up internet too 😊.

I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡 Thank you so for using your time and dropping by my blog 🧡

See you soon 😊

The Roof close to my stairs and my roof terrace,- but I don’t think anyone has been walking over this today. It doesn’t look very safe, and also a bit complicated and to much work for “throughing” a tiny package on my stairs 😊

We create our days, and sometimes we even can create a tiny little “mystery” in or out from our day 😊. Like I did today 😅. If you are a bit curious what my “mystery” was, you are very welcome to read my text 😊 … or actually watch my text today. It’s more video today then written words 😊.

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